285 lbs of butch queen flawlessness

Jul 24

thoughtsofablackgirl:

blackhaireverywhere:

crimsong19:

consultingpiskies:

Jessica Williams speaks with Sgt. Jasmine Jacobs about Army regulation AR 670-1

Jessica Williams and Travon (one of the staff writers) do it again!

This is why white women can’t be in the natural hair movement

Had to bold that comment

Jul 23

Grindr founder Joel Simkhai: 'I've found love on my dating app - and my mum keeps trying to hook me up!' →

endracismandhomophobia:

I’m really glad the author of this article asks Joel Simkhai, the fuckwit who created Grindr, some difficult questions. And as you can see from his answers, he is every bit the arsehole we already know he is. His basic answer for everything is: “not my problem, nothing I can do”. Homophobia, racism, commodification and degeneration of the gay experience, nothing to do with Joel Simkhai. Of course it would be crzy to blame Grindr for all the gay world’s problems, and I don’t intend to start. But these apps and their creators do contribute in large part to the cruelty and exclusionary aspects that have become so prevalent: in fact these apps have mainstreamed the self-hatred of the community. Disingenuous responses from morally corrupt arseholes like Simkhai do nothing to alleviate the problem, but it’s great he chose to hang his arse out for the world to see.

Jul 23

maxkirin:

Today I had a long talk with one of my followers, they shared with me their story, and I shared mine with them. When everything was said, I felt it was time to pass on a piece of advice I’d been given years before.

Anyone who claims to be your “friend” but doesn’t celebrate your victories, and never misses your failures, is NOT your “friend.”

This goes for all walks of life, but it echoes louder for artists, writers, and musicians. If you have someone who claims to be your “friend” but has done nothing but hinder you, your passion, and your craft— then you have my permission to walk away.

There’s a saying in Mexico…

"I would rather be alone than in bad company."

Stay strong, dear followers. You don’t ‘owe’ anyone your friendship. It doesn’t matter if you have known each other your whole life, or if you just met. You have a limited time on this planet, don’t waste it surrounded by people who hinder your art.

Jul 23

Innocent Trans Women →

baeddelbutch:

One reason that so many people claim to value protecting trans women, but won’t go to bat when it comes time to follow through, is that they’re actually only interested in protecting hypothetical, innocent trans women. What these people fail to acknowledge is that, by…

Jul 23
  • me: yes i speak that language
  • me: no not that part
Jul 23
mysecretorigin:

backyardgoldmine:

afternoonsnoozebutton:

This story that’s been going around has been pissing me off so much. Like wow, maybe if you actually put a tenth of the effort that was put into this spreadsheet into figuring out what turns your wife on and off (hint: passive aggressive spreadsheet-making is probably a turn off), you wouldn’t be getting turned down so damn often.

I feel really bad for her. Especially when you look at the reasons. One of them is because she still felt tender from the day before. Like you’re hurting her but you’re going to blame her. He doesn’t seem mature enough to have sex. 

This story is just so…ugh. The thing that I think bothered me the most was how everyone weighing in made such ridiculous assumptions. Such as “Two weeks with no sex? SHE IS OBVIOUSLY CHEATING.” 


I think all these are true. But what sticks out for me most is a woman being in a relationship with someone she OBVIOUSLY doesn’t want to have sex with. Which, girl, why haven’t you dumped his ass?

mysecretorigin:

backyardgoldmine:

afternoonsnoozebutton:

This story that’s been going around has been pissing me off so much. Like wow, maybe if you actually put a tenth of the effort that was put into this spreadsheet into figuring out what turns your wife on and off (hint: passive aggressive spreadsheet-making is probably a turn off), you wouldn’t be getting turned down so damn often.

I feel really bad for her. Especially when you look at the reasons. One of them is because she still felt tender from the day before. Like you’re hurting her but you’re going to blame her. He doesn’t seem mature enough to have sex. 

This story is just so…ugh. The thing that I think bothered me the most was how everyone weighing in made such ridiculous assumptions. Such as “Two weeks with no sex? SHE IS OBVIOUSLY CHEATING.” 

I think all these are true. But what sticks out for me most is a woman being in a relationship with someone she OBVIOUSLY doesn’t want to have sex with. Which, girl, why haven’t you dumped his ass?

Jul 23
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Jul 23
fiseebilillah:

borntobemuslim:

d3imonds:

fuckyeajews:

fallintoyourarmstonight:

thomcurse:
When orthodox Jews joined with Palestinian youths throwing stones at Israeli police.

I’m not quite sure what to think, but this picture is pretty badass.

definitely badass

Love this !! Haha ☺️

very badass looool

fiseebilillah:

borntobemuslim:

d3imonds:

fuckyeajews:

fallintoyourarmstonight:

thomcurse:

When orthodox Jews joined with Palestinian youths throwing stones at Israeli police.

I’m not quite sure what to think, but this picture is pretty badass.

definitely badass

Love this !! Haha ☺️

very badass looool

Jul 23

quote Develop a healthy relationship with food. If you’re hungry, eat. If you’re full, don’t eat. Eat vegetables to be good to your body, but eat ice cream to be good to your soul.

Take pictures of yourself frequently. Chronicle your life. Selfies are completely underrated. Even if the pictures are unflattering, keep them anyway. There will always be mountains and cities and buildings, but you will never look the same way as you did in that one moment in time.

Your worth does not depend on how desirable someone finds you. Spend less time in front of the mirror and more time with people who make you feel beautiful.

Close doors. Don’t hold onto things that no longer brings you happiness and do not help you grow as a person. It is okay to walk away from toxic relationships. You are not weak for letting go.

Forgive yourself. We all have something in our pasts that we are ashamed of, but they only weigh us down if we allow them to. Make amends with the old you and work every day to become the person that you’ve always wanted to be.

Tina Tran, Tips to being a happier you  (via exoticwild)
Jul 23
crusherccme:

found this gem in the 1996 Cornell Women’s Handbook. it’s what to say when a guy tries to get out of using a condom

crusherccme:

found this gem in the 1996 Cornell Women’s Handbook. it’s what to say when a guy tries to get out of using a condom

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Jul 22
jayjsupremacy:

themulattokat:

drinkingtheflood:

All my checks will…
bounce, bounce, bounce, bounce, bounce.

CRYING

Seagrams poppin’ in our refrigerator, $5 for 4 bottles and I save ‘em for later. I got: ramen on the left [left], pizza on the right [right], and a free month on netflix so we stay turnt up all night. 

jayjsupremacy:

themulattokat:

drinkingtheflood:

All my checks will…

bounce, bounce, bounce, bounce, bounce.

CRYING

Seagrams poppin’ in our refrigerator, $5 for 4 bottles and I save ‘em for later. I got: ramen on the left [left], pizza on the right [right], and a free month on netflix so we stay turnt up all night.